Alzheimer’s and Dementia Part 2

 

According to the law firm of Cohen and Oalican, elder law attorneys in Boston, MA, there are 5 specific conversations adult children should have with their parents as soon as the opportunity presents itself. They comprise the following:

1. Long-term care preferences

Would your parents prefer nursing home, long term care, or in-home care if there had to be a choice?  If they prefer a long term care or nursing home facility, what amenities and activities are important to them? Asking these questions early can smooth the moving to an assisted living facility or a home-health care program far simpler should the need ever present..

2. Legal Documentation

What good is a living will if no-one knows where to find it?  It is critical that you know what legal documentation your parents have before incapacity occurs. This includes making sure their parents have a power of attorney, health care directive and HIPAA forms so someone can easily step in to make financial or medical decisions on their behalf.  In absence of this documentation, the family can be forced into petitioning a court for control over their parents.  This can be expensive, time consuming, and may not result in what your aging parent wanted with their lives.

3. Medical Preferences and Wishes

Please discover what type of, and how much care your aging parents want as soon as possible after their initial diagnosis of Alzheimer’s or Dementia. Understand their desires about life support and  other end-of life medical treatments. Who do they want to make these decisions for them if and when they can’t?  This will help your parents' security in knowing that their desires in this area will be carried out, despite the family trauma that enfolds itself around Alzheimer’s and Dementia.

to be continued….