Alzheimer's and Dementia

 

While most of the country is involved in Valentines activity this week, those who care for elders with special needs are more than aware that this is also Alzheimer’s and Dementia awareness week (February 14th –21st).  This week is the perfect time to show your love for those you care for by having the “tough love” hard conversations with elderly aging parents about their wishes and plans should the disease ever strike.

“Does Dad want to be in an assisted care facility, or a nursing home?”

“Does Grandma look at life with Alzheimer’s or Dementia to be quality of life?”

“Do you have, and where do you keep legal documentation ensuring someone can act financially on mom or dad’s behalf  if they are no longer able to act on their own behalf?”

These are many questions that experts in all fields urge adult children to ask of their parents during this year’s Alzheimer’s and Dementia Awareness Week (February 14th- 21st).  These answers help family’s build a plan, and know how to execute their parents’ wishes in the tragic event that mental illness strikes.  Don’t leave the decisions to when it becomes a battle between siblings, or until there isn’t enough time to financially prepare.  Have these heartfelt conversations now.

“We see so many families that waited on important conversations, that come to us in crisis mode, instead of planning mode regarding Alzheimer’s or Dementia  - Crisis mode is expensive, and results too often in knee jerk, and expensive decisions.” says Boston elder lawyer, Stephen Cohen. “Legally, if an adult child doesn’t know  their parents’ wishes, or can’t put their hands on instruments like a durable power of attorney, they can be left with a legal, financial and tax quagmire, while simultaneously dealing with the physical and emotional needs of this debilitating disease”, adds elder law partner Eric Oalican.

 

to be continued…